Leadership, management, social justice and ICT : While many have easy lives, got easy jobs , easy education, everything on a platter, a silver spoon in their mouths, I had to strive to be where I am today. Abrief summary of my relationship life so far at the age of 37. A magnet of bad luck. A childhood and adolescence spent in domestic violence problems. (i) My father was drinking whisky (1952-1995) , (ii) my brother was drinking wine (1984-2012) , (iii) mother was drinking beer (1958-2023) , society adding insult to injury and in adulthood(iv) the woman who pretended to love me and made me believe I was the father of her child was a (iv) smoker and a (v) drug addict, (vi) a psychopath ,a thief, a pathological liar doing zig zag,yes-no-yes,(vii) an adulterer , (viii) while I am praying for her, she is enjoying , makingbaby with other men in Spain. Despite all these harms, I have never fallen into any vices, nor consumed any alcohol, nor smoked and never touched any drug in my life, even still virgin, never even touched, kissed a woman in my life ,as an educator, a Civil servant, a researcher , fighting my daily wars in solitude against , attacks from all sides, unprovoked, unjustified, premeditated violence , kicks at home, kicks from society , kicks at work ,obstacles all along my path of studies and the law spitting on my visage and in my rights I aspire to achieve highernamely deputy/rector with my qualifications EL, BSc Hon, PGCE, PGDELM, PGDEM, MBA ; An overview of importance of keeping faith, never stop praying, however unjust life can be, however this society harm, steal me. Let them all shoot their arrows to me, I will still rise.1 Thessalonians 5 : 16-18