A formula for love: partner merit and appreciation beget actor significance
Year: 2025
Type: article
Abstract: We offer a model of romantic love as a means to the end of feeling significant and worthy. According to this model, the partner's perceived merits and their appreciation of the actor combine with the actor's magnitude of significance quest to determine the likelihood of the actor falling in love with the partner. Our model affords a broad account of diverse love phenomena and the derivation of specific hypotheses supported by prior and new data and offers novel avenues for further research on classic issues in romantic love. The discussion considers our model's unique implications and its relation to other theories of love. factors compensate for one another. A partner’s lower standing on merit or appreciation is compensated in its impact on falling in love by the partner’s higher standing on the remaining dimension. Furthermore, lower levels of either or both of these factors are compensated for by the actor’s higher level of significance quest.Our model affords a broad account of diverse love phenomena, allows the derivation of several specific hypotheses supported by prior close-relations research as well as new data, and it offers novel avenues for further research on classic issues in romantic love. The discussion considers our model’s unique implications and examines its relation to other theories of love.
Source: Behavioral and Brain Sciences
Language: English
Subfield: Social Psychology
Field: Psychology
Domain: Social Sciences
Open Access status: gold
OpenAlex ID: W4408135665