Friends’ Personality Similarity and Its Association With Friendship Well-Being
Year: 2026
Type: article
Study design: Observational Study
Abstract: Homophily in psychological characteristics is common, yet recent evidence suggests that personality trait similarity among friends may be less common. Moreover, little is known about whether and how personality similarity—and perceptions of this similarity—among friends shapes how they feel about their relationships in group settings. In a study of 369 quads of friends ( N = 1,476), we found personality similarity in most Big Five traits (except extraversion), but perceived similarity was larger and more common than actual similarity across all traits. Response surface analyses found no evidence of similarity effects on friendship satisfaction across all traits and models. Rather, actor and partner effects (particularly perceived partner characteristics) of personality were more consistently associated with friendship satisfaction. Our findings contribute to the debate on similarity as a heuristic for friendship compatibility and enhance our understanding of whether and how friends’ personalities shape friendship well-being.
Authors: Hyewon Yang, Atea Nelson, Lisa Stuckman, Grace Yancho, Lindsay S. Ackerman, M. Brent Donnellan, William J. Chopik, Richard E. Lucas
Institution: Michigan State University
Language: English
Subfield: Clinical Psychology
Field: Psychology
Domain: Social Sciences
Open Access status: green
OpenAlex ID: W4415523954