The phenomenon of love in the therapeutic relationship: an autoethnographic case study
Year: 2025
Type: article
Abstract: Objective: In this autoethnographic case study, I set out to explore the phenomenon of love in the therapeutic relationship – a subject that has long been acknowledged as a central, yet underexplored, element in clinical practice. Recognizing love as one of the most intense human experiences, I believe that its presence in therapy – whether experienced as an observer, an object of affection, or an active participant – holds significant implications for both client outcomes and therapist self-awareness. In this study, I aimed to investigate how love emerges during music therapy sessions with Lila, a fifteen-year-old girl with severe cognitive and physical disabilities, and to understand its impact on the therapeutic process, including both its potential benefits and risks. Methods: I conducted twelve 30-minute music therapy sessions with Lila. To capture the subtle interplay of personal emotions, countertransference, and the dynamics of our therapeutic interaction, I engaged in reflexive writing and maintained a detailed diary both before and after each session. This autoethnographic approach allowed me to document and analyze my internal experiences alongside the observed therapeutic processes. Results: My autoethnographic analysis revealed that adopting a loving stance in therapy deepens empathy, fosters a more attuned connection, and enhances the overall therapeutic presence. However, I also observed potential risks, such as blurred boundaries and increased personal vulnerability, which complicate the therapeutic relationship and demand careful navigation. Conclusion: I conclude that the decision to integrate love into therapeutic practice must be highly individualized, requiring careful ethical and relational consideration. My findings contribute to a broader understanding of love’s multifaceted role in therapy and underscore the need for further exploration of its clinical, cultural, and psychological dimensions.
DOI: 10.3205/jat000047
Author: Dehesht, Parnian
Institution: SRH University of Applied Sciences Heidelberg
Language: English
Topic: Music Therapy and Health
Subfield: Social Psychology
Field: Psychology
Domain: Social Sciences
Open Access status: green
OpenAlex ID: W7110932553
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