Staring briefly at the sun: reflections on hope, grief and nursing
Year: 2026
Type: editorial
Abstract: When is it reasonable to tell your children that you have a terminal illness?Should it be before or after the Swedish Friday evening family ritual of fredagsmys?These are some of the reflections raised by Jenny Aronsen (2026) in her powerful paper about living with ALS.Aronsen is both a nurse and a researcher, and she herself has been living with ALS for several years.Her text is deeply moving and, I hope, will be used in many contexts, not least in nursing education.Aronsen highlights the importance of hope.Even in situations where the outlook appears very dark, people need permission to hope.As nurses, we may have an important role in supporting and protecting that hope.This is not about denying reality, but about acknowledging the human need to find meaning, connection and possibility even in the face of life-limiting illness.Barbara Dossey's holistic nursing theory reminds us that nursing care must address the whole person.At the same time, it also emphasises that caregivers themselves must be attentive to their own inner lives.As nurses, we need to strengthen our capacities for presence, reflection and selfawareness, and we must dare to encounter thoughts about death and mortality (Garmy et al., 2021).Research by Garnow et al. (2024) shows that adolescents experience existential loneliness as painful, yet also as something that can be understood as part of life and even as a potential source of personal growth.At the same time, young people describe the need for respite from existential loneliness.Remaining with these reflections for too long can become overwhelming.Their findings echo the ideas of Irving D. Yalom.Yalom (2009) argued that existential thoughts about our own death can only be approached briefly and intermittently.He compared it to staring at the sun: we cannot endure looking for too long.The sun is powerful and beautiful, but if we stare at it continuously we become blinded.We must occasionally look away.In Staring at the Sun, Yalom (2009: 121) wrote that existential isolation is 'more profound and stems from the unbridgeable gap between the individual and other people.This gap is a consequence not only of our having been thrown alone into existence and having to exit alone, but derives from the fact that each of us inhabits a world fully known only to ourselves'.
Source: Journal of research in nursing
Author: Pernilla Garmy
Institution: Kristianstad University
Language: English
Field: Medicine
Domain: Health Sciences
Open Access status: hybrid
Estimated APC paid: $3,900
OpenAlex ID: W7154155177